How to Start Conversations
Like a Boss

Starting conversations with anyone, let alone strangers, isn't easy. Sometimes it just plain sucks. It's easier to let others control the conversation, but then you're stuck letting others decide your fate. ​

Learn to grab the small talk bull by the horns and start any conversation, with anyone, anywhere. Learn 37 amazing techniques, based on over 15 years of research, for improving your ability to start conversations. 

It's time to start conversations like a boss.

165 pages.

$9.99 USD

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ReAL TALK

There are no strangers here; only friends you haven’t met yet.

– William Butler Yeats

Over 400 real-life examples.
Book Outline

BEFORE YOU INITIATE

1. BOSSES START GAMES THEY CAN WIN

2. BOSSES HAVE THE SMALL TALK MINDSET

3. BOSSES DON’T OVER-THINK, THEY HIT THE BALL

4. BOSSES UNDERSTAND THE FIRST LEVEL OF SMALL TALK

5. BOSSES UNDERSTAND THE SECOND LEVEL OF SMALL TALK

6. BOSSES UNDERSTAND THE THIRD LEVEL OF SMALL TALK

7. BOSSES ARE CONVERSATION FACT HUNTERS

8. BOSSES REMEMBER

9. BOSSES KNOW HOW TO TAPP

10. BOSSES MAKE OTHERS FEEL GOOD

 

TIME TO INITIATE

11. BOSSES GO FIRST AND GAIN THE ADVANTAGE

12. BOSSES GAIN INSTANT APPEAL BY GOING FIRST

13. BOSSES CONNECT QUICKLY VIA TRUST

14. BOSSES MASTER THE BIG THREE

 

INITIATING WITH FEELER STATEMENTS

15. BOSSES INITIATE WITH FEELER STATEMENTS

16. BOSSES ARE MASTERS OF THE YOU FEELERS

17. BOSSES ARE MASTERS OF THE THEM FEELERS

18. BOSSES ARE MASTERS OF ENVIRONMENT FEELERS

19. BOSSES INITIATE WITH TAILORED FEELERS

20. BOSSES LEVERAGE TRANSITION OBJECTS

 

ADVANCED TECHNIQUES

21. BOSSES INITIATE BETTER WITH PROBLEM FEELERS

22. BOSSES TRY PROBLEM FEELERS WITH FRIENDS TOO

23. BOSSES INITIATE WITH PLAYFUL FEELERS

24. BOSSES INITIATE WITH TIMELINE FEELERS

25. BOSSES MASTER THEIR OWN TIMELINE

26. BOSSES FOLLOW THE FOOFAAE FORMULA WITH FRIENDS

27. FOOFAAE: A CASE STUDY

 

INITIATING WITH QUESTIONS

28. BOSSES ASK FLOW QUESTIONS

29. BOSSES ARE MASTERS OF MANY QUESTION TYPES

30. BOSSES ASK THE FULL RANGE OF FOOFAAE QUESTIONS

31. BOSSES MAINTAIN THE FLOW WITH QUESTION ASSISTANTS

 

INITIATING BALANCED CONVERSATIONS

32. BOSSES OFFER SOMETHING TO CHEW ON

33. BOSSES PAINT INTERESTING SELF-PORTRAITS

34. BOSSES INITIATE WITH SELF-DISCLOSURE

35. BOSSES PAINT SELF-PORTRAITS CONTAINING FRIENDS

36. BOSSES KEEP HITTING THE BALL

37. BOSSES ARE SOCIALLY ARMED

Gregory Peart, M.Ed.

social scientist / author / father / gamer

greg@socialupgrader.com 

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